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732-444-8916 Hello@ThriveMentalHealth.us

THRIVE! Mental Health
  • Home
  • About Us
    • Our Story
    • FAQs
  • Services
    • Treatment Modalities
    • Mental Health Conditions
    • DID Therapy
    • Group Therapy
    • Speaking & Trainings
    • Consulting
  • Resources
    • Suicide & Crisis Hotlines
    • Funding For Therapy
    • Givers' Guide
    • Resources For DID
    • Resources for Loved Ones
    • Mental Health Apps
  • Other Services
    • Community Activism
    • Invited Talks
    • Publications
    • Event Directing
  • Contact Us
  • Blog

OUR STORY

MEET THE THERAPIST

Meet Frayde Yudkowsky, LSW, LMSW, CTP

Founder of THRIVE! Mental Health
Therapist • Educator • Advocate • Community Activist • System • Fashionista


Hi!! I’m Frayde Yudkowsky — and yes, I wear a lot of hats. Literally and figuratively.


Licensed therapist in New York, New Jersey, and Arizona. Certified Trauma Professional. RAMCOA survivor. Polyfragmented System living with DID. And that is not a footnote to who I am. It's the engine behind everything I do.

I'm drawn to the rooms most people walk past — the psych hospitals, the rehabs, the PHPs and IOPs, the wilderness programs and sober living homes and shelters, the in-home crisis calls.  I've worked in all of them and founded and built multiple nonprofits along the way. That's where people need someone the most — someone who sees them, hears them, and lets them be exactly who they are.


People first. Safety first. Not a slogan I picked for a website — it's how I live.


That's the heart behind THRIVE! Mental Health — a place I built for adults of every gender and every background carrying complex trauma, where healing is the whole point. 


My specialty is DID and OSDD: the whole system, every part. Together we figure out who's who inside and build loving collaboration rooted in compassion.


This is who I am. Not just something I do. My training, my lived experience, my heart — it's all here, ready for you.


So whoever you are — client, colleague, fellow traveler, or just someone who stumbled onto this page — welcome. I'm genuinely glad you're here. 


This is THRIVE! Mental Health. We see you. All of you.


🫶
— Frayde

HOW WE WORK TOGETHER

  

Gentle tools. Real attunement. 


A pace that's yours, not mine.

This work honors the whole you — your identities, your parts, your story, all of it welcome here. 


Trauma survivors, LGBTQIAPD+ clients, neurodivergent folks, Systems — this is a soft place to land.


We start with comfortability, always. 

Before we go anywhere, we build a space where it's okay to slow down and breathe. Grounding, stability, a sense that nothing has to happen before you're ready. Comfortability isn't just a first step — it's the foundation everything else stands on.


We meet the parts of you that don't use words. 

Sand tray and sand play, art, music, writing, movement — these become a language when talking feels like too much, or when something in you has never had the words to begin with. There's no pressure to perform insight. Just space to let something surface, gently, in its own time.


We listen to what your body already knows. 

Trauma doesn't only live in memory — it lives in the nervous system. We go slowly here, honoring whatever your body needs to feel comfortable enough to soften, one small moment at a time.


And for Systems, we do this from the inside out. 

For those living with DID and OSDD, healing means learning to build loving collaboration between parts — communication, compassion, and a life lived in harmony. Just patient, respectful relationship-building, at whatever pace feels comfortable for the whole system.


At THRIVE!, we don't “fix” people.
We heal alongside people—with curiosity, care, and the colorful glitter pen.

Let’s make therapy bold, tender, creative, and real.

Let’s THRIVE!—together. 

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MY LEARNING ALONG THE WAY AND FOREVER

Education, Certifications & Ongoing Growth


Because healing deserves both heart and hard-earned knowledge.


Therapy isn’t just about showing up with warmth (though we do plenty of that here at THRIVE!). It’s also about showing up with skill, training, and the humility to keep learning. 


Formal Education

I hold a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Kean University (Union, NJ) and a Bachelor of Liberal Arts from Adelphi University (Garden City, NY). These degrees laid the foundation for my passion: helping people navigate the complexities of trauma, identity, and healing in real-world, relational ways.


Certifications


  • Certified Trauma Professional 
  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Trainer
  • Mental Health First Aid 
  • Psychological First Aid 


Specialized Trainings

I’ve completed extensive clinical training in:


  • Somatic Interventions 
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) 
  • Positive Psychology 
  • The Flash Technique 
  • Sand Play & Sand Tray Therapy 


Great therapy combines evidence-based tools with fierce empathy and ongoing growth. That’s why I never stop learning—because every new technique I master is another way to support your healing.


At THRIVE!, you get the full package: formal training, trauma-savvy technique, lived experience, and a therapist who’s always evolving right alongside you.

Our Space

    GUIDING YOU TOWARDS A BRIGHTER TOMORROW

    If you’re ready to begin your journey toward healing and growth, reach out today. Whether you have questions about therapy, need help choosing the right service, or are ready to schedule an appointment, we’re here to help!

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